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		<title>By: Jacoman</title>
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		<dc:creator>Jacoman</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 12 Sep 2011 00:40:24 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Greetings to all,
I am 52 and have been married for 5 years to a beautiful Colombian woman I met while traveling in South America. She is 19 years younger than me and their are no problems to be had. We also have a 4-yr old son who was born in Colombia and he is the joy of my life. Why? Because she is a beautiful woman who has not been poisoned by feminism. Let me be clear. I knew almost 20 years ago that I would NEVER marry and American woman for many reasons. My wife is a great mother who teaches my son, showers him with love (and me too!) and affection and is with him all day rather than working. I invested lots of time looking for a good Colombian woman. I dated girls in Cali who were gorgeous, hot, great in bed, but really weren&#039;t marriage material. I then moved to a smaller city and was able to start meeting women with family values. If you are going to marry a latin woman, make sure she is from a smaller city of town. I have talked to many of my friends here in the U.S. about these things and they just don&#039;t get it. They still go for American women. They also have been brainwashed by femninism thinking that if the woman doesn&#039;t have everything 50/50 then she will be unhappy. Let me be clear again. American women will NEVER be liberated from the fact that they will always me measuring whether they are getting their 50%. My wife never measures that and is therefore liberated from the bonds of feminism. She is comfortable being submissive to a man who is loving, faithful and respectful (because most Colombian men are dogs) and knows his way through this jungle of life. This makes her feel secure and safe. I will be raising my son in Latin America because I want him to marry a latin woman who will make him happy too. If you don&#039;t want children I still recommend foreign women. Good luck to you all.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Greetings to all,<br />
I am 52 and have been married for 5 years to a beautiful Colombian woman I met while traveling in South America. She is 19 years younger than me and their are no problems to be had. We also have a 4-yr old son who was born in Colombia and he is the joy of my life. Why? Because she is a beautiful woman who has not been poisoned by feminism. Let me be clear. I knew almost 20 years ago that I would NEVER marry and American woman for many reasons. My wife is a great mother who teaches my son, showers him with love (and me too!) and affection and is with him all day rather than working. I invested lots of time looking for a good Colombian woman. I dated girls in Cali who were gorgeous, hot, great in bed, but really weren&#8217;t marriage material. I then moved to a smaller city and was able to start meeting women with family values. If you are going to marry a latin woman, make sure she is from a smaller city of town. I have talked to many of my friends here in the U.S. about these things and they just don&#8217;t get it. They still go for American women. They also have been brainwashed by femninism thinking that if the woman doesn&#8217;t have everything 50/50 then she will be unhappy. Let me be clear again. American women will NEVER be liberated from the fact that they will always me measuring whether they are getting their 50%. My wife never measures that and is therefore liberated from the bonds of feminism. She is comfortable being submissive to a man who is loving, faithful and respectful (because most Colombian men are dogs) and knows his way through this jungle of life. This makes her feel secure and safe. I will be raising my son in Latin America because I want him to marry a latin woman who will make him happy too. If you don&#8217;t want children I still recommend foreign women. Good luck to you all.</p>
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		<title>By: The Emperor</title>
		<link>http://www.levelwise.org/should-men-say-no-to-marriage.html/comment-page-1#comment-36731</link>
		<dc:creator>The Emperor</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 14 Jul 2011 21:05:29 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>You sound like my wife Marcy.  Unfortunately, women like you or my wife are very rare to find in the US and getting harder to find because of the disease called feminism.  

Although I haven&#039;t been married for a year, my wife is very traditional in that she looks like a woman in wearing dresses instead of jeans/sweats, treats me with love and respect so that I do the same with her and takes care of me so that I in turn will take care of her.

She gets disgusted with women who mistreat their men because these are the same women that then complain why their man is cheating on them or doesn&#039;t care for them.

Our 16 year old niece is attractive, studious and has a feminine sense of fashion.  Unfortunately, she is behaving like a feminist all the while in denial that she is one. As an example, a few days ago, with my wife we went to watch the newest Transformers movie and she was outraged with the scene where the female lead greets her live-in boyfriend in a t-shirt and panties.  She felt that was degrading to women yet she enjoys watching the Twilight series and drools over the werewolf guy being shirtless.

Another example, three nights ago, she challenged me and her little brother to Halo saying &#039;Girls rule, boys drool.&#039;  The next night, her and her little sister were one team, me and her little brother were another.  Between the three of them, her little sister is the better player and her brother is the worst.  The night of our match, the men dominated, with our scores being 50-35, 50-29 and the final being 50-23, and the brother played very well that I didn&#039;t have to babysit him all the while trying to stay alive.  

During the match, the 16 year old would taunt us whenever she killed us but would complain when we killed her.  Also, in her mind it was perfectly okay for her to attack us from behind but not for us to attack her from behind.

After three rounds in which me and my nephew beat my niece&#039;s, she angrily said &#039;I don&#039;t want to play anymore.&#039;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>You sound like my wife Marcy.  Unfortunately, women like you or my wife are very rare to find in the US and getting harder to find because of the disease called feminism.  </p>
<p>Although I haven&#8217;t been married for a year, my wife is very traditional in that she looks like a woman in wearing dresses instead of jeans/sweats, treats me with love and respect so that I do the same with her and takes care of me so that I in turn will take care of her.</p>
<p>She gets disgusted with women who mistreat their men because these are the same women that then complain why their man is cheating on them or doesn&#8217;t care for them.</p>
<p>Our 16 year old niece is attractive, studious and has a feminine sense of fashion.  Unfortunately, she is behaving like a feminist all the while in denial that she is one. As an example, a few days ago, with my wife we went to watch the newest Transformers movie and she was outraged with the scene where the female lead greets her live-in boyfriend in a t-shirt and panties.  She felt that was degrading to women yet she enjoys watching the Twilight series and drools over the werewolf guy being shirtless.</p>
<p>Another example, three nights ago, she challenged me and her little brother to Halo saying &#8216;Girls rule, boys drool.&#8217;  The next night, her and her little sister were one team, me and her little brother were another.  Between the three of them, her little sister is the better player and her brother is the worst.  The night of our match, the men dominated, with our scores being 50-35, 50-29 and the final being 50-23, and the brother played very well that I didn&#8217;t have to babysit him all the while trying to stay alive.  </p>
<p>During the match, the 16 year old would taunt us whenever she killed us but would complain when we killed her.  Also, in her mind it was perfectly okay for her to attack us from behind but not for us to attack her from behind.</p>
<p>After three rounds in which me and my nephew beat my niece&#8217;s, she angrily said &#8216;I don&#8217;t want to play anymore.&#8217;</p>
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		<title>By: Serp</title>
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		<dc:creator>Serp</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 03 Jul 2011 15:28:16 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>If you truly love your sons, you will tell them not to get married.  It just provides no benefit to them at this point.

Unless they are really poor and have no self confidence that is.  If that is the case, they have nothing to lose anyway, so it makes no difference.  But if you raised them correctly, that should not be the case.

To me it is absolutely ridiculous that feminists can claim marriage is oppressive to women and that they need men like a &quot;fish needs a bicycle&quot; but then turn around and try to pressure men into marriage.  If feminists truly believed the garbage they spew then they would discourage men from marrying in the first place.

But they don&#039;t.  They&#039;ve set up a system where marriage is just another method for them to benefit off of someone else while providing nothing in return.  That is the real reason feminists want men to marry so badly.  It isn&#039;t because of love or anything like that, feminist culture doesn&#039;t have that towards males.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>If you truly love your sons, you will tell them not to get married.  It just provides no benefit to them at this point.</p>
<p>Unless they are really poor and have no self confidence that is.  If that is the case, they have nothing to lose anyway, so it makes no difference.  But if you raised them correctly, that should not be the case.</p>
<p>To me it is absolutely ridiculous that feminists can claim marriage is oppressive to women and that they need men like a &#8220;fish needs a bicycle&#8221; but then turn around and try to pressure men into marriage.  If feminists truly believed the garbage they spew then they would discourage men from marrying in the first place.</p>
<p>But they don&#8217;t.  They&#8217;ve set up a system where marriage is just another method for them to benefit off of someone else while providing nothing in return.  That is the real reason feminists want men to marry so badly.  It isn&#8217;t because of love or anything like that, feminist culture doesn&#8217;t have that towards males.</p>
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		<title>By: The Duke</title>
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		<dc:creator>The Duke</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 04 Jun 2011 14:03:32 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Correct version
_________________________

Im sorry for my english.. but i would say my opinion about this topic..

The only certain way to avoid losing the house, children, money, cars, and 

mental and physical health is not married.

Each strategy, action plan and various precautions, can be made as well, do 

not solve two major problems related to marriage in a feminist society like 

ours.

The first of these two main problems arises when you get married: your wife 

from that moment, takes the knife by the handle. 

The second problem is that in case of separation, in most cases is the man to 

lose everythings.

Regarding the first problem, your girlfriend just became &quot;wife&quot; is 

automatically invested by State laws with a great new power that earlier, 

during the normal relationship, did not have.

It &#039;s the power of using blackmail as a weapon in this Feminist State 

society, that is threatening the separation with everything that goes with it 

(the second problem).

All the grains of the first problem can manifest itself in countless ways. An 

example: you have children, you want to send them to private school, your 

wife, to public school. Discuss, argue, and do not come to a compromise. In 

the evening, or night, your wife decides to revenge about you in a snake way: 

she doesn&#039;t make love with you, for days, weeks, sometimes even for mouths.

This weapon, we may name it &quot;sexual blackmail&quot;, she had it also before 

marriage, but it was fair, since you could oppose the other weapons: 

1) I leave you, 
2) I go with another woman better than you, 
3) I go to prostitutes, 

etc.etc. 

All these weapons, balancing the relactionship between men and women, now 

doesn&#039;t works anymore!, well, you still have them but you can potentially 

backfire yourself! 

if you leave it, go with another, go to prostitutes or else your wife could 

use his new femminist State laws power, which did not had before, and invoke 

the rules (female), asking for the separation and punish you with everything 

that goes with it.

During the marriage your wife can do the good and the bad weather, i doesn&#039;t 

matter how much &quot;land&quot; you have in a marriage, keep in mind that she always 

rule on the entire playing field, and this one of those situations where the 

only way to don&#039;t lose, is not to play. 

Do not get married.. We can not and should not entrust our fate to the only 

&quot;good heart&quot; of the woman you&#039;re set, since for men are missing a number of 

safeguards that make the marriage the equivalent of Russian roulette.

Once you become aware of this, we must consider the underlying problems, and 

before you ask &quot;is convenient for me to get married?&quot; you Would be better to 

ask yourself &quot;why I want to get marry?&quot;.

For believers, this needs may arise to make the sacrament of marriage. But 

let me tell you.. does this sacrament make sense in a corrupted society, 

where the marriage seems to have become an excuse to have joy in the church 

for a day, have a good time for a week going &quot;honeymoon in the Maldives&quot;, 

only to dissolve this &quot;sacred link &quot;when you wife decide it&#039;s time to&quot; break 

free from the chains of marriage (but not from your bank account)? 

Is this or not, for believers, a serious insult to the sacrament of marriage?

Just as in a church, used for black prayers and the adoration of the devil 

should not celebrate prayers, so in a society corrupted by feminist cancer, a 

church should not be used to clean the traditions that we have only in the 

outer shell, but within inside is corrupted and decaying.

For non-believers, however, the issue is much simpler, and decide not to 

marry takes a sense of independence from the increasingly oppressive rule 

from this NAZIFEMMINIST State laws against men.

Let me ask you, Why give the State more freedom to enter right into our 

bedrooms, giving them more tools in hand to punish us when it decide that 

this is right? why let it be the judge of your sentimental life?

This power, which the NAZIFEMMINIST State laws has used and continues to use 

to transfer money from the pockets of men in women&#039;s pockets, and to widen 

the freedom of all proportion to the detriment of women than men, now sees 

its greatest expression in their Marriage.

The only solution is not to marry. If you want to live the experience of 

married life, you can always experiment with cohabitation of longer or 

shorter, always provided that they are not made more insidious and misleading 

to equate cohabitation with marriage.

Something finally must be said very clearly: who buys a poison apple, knowing 

it was poisoned, then do not expect any &quot;solidarity&quot; by his peers when the 

lethal effect of the poison will start to be felt.

As a bottom line, let me tell you this: many old Wise Sage used to say:&quot;Who 

is the cause of his illness, cry himself&quot;.
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		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Correct version<br />
_________________________</p>
<p>Im sorry for my english.. but i would say my opinion about this topic..</p>
<p>The only certain way to avoid losing the house, children, money, cars, and </p>
<p>mental and physical health is not married.</p>
<p>Each strategy, action plan and various precautions, can be made as well, do </p>
<p>not solve two major problems related to marriage in a feminist society like </p>
<p>ours.</p>
<p>The first of these two main problems arises when you get married: your wife </p>
<p>from that moment, takes the knife by the handle. </p>
<p>The second problem is that in case of separation, in most cases is the man to </p>
<p>lose everythings.</p>
<p>Regarding the first problem, your girlfriend just became &#8220;wife&#8221; is </p>
<p>automatically invested by State laws with a great new power that earlier, </p>
<p>during the normal relationship, did not have.</p>
<p>It &#8216;s the power of using blackmail as a weapon in this Feminist State </p>
<p>society, that is threatening the separation with everything that goes with it </p>
<p>(the second problem).</p>
<p>All the grains of the first problem can manifest itself in countless ways. An </p>
<p>example: you have children, you want to send them to private school, your </p>
<p>wife, to public school. Discuss, argue, and do not come to a compromise. In </p>
<p>the evening, or night, your wife decides to revenge about you in a snake way: </p>
<p>she doesn&#8217;t make love with you, for days, weeks, sometimes even for mouths.</p>
<p>This weapon, we may name it &#8220;sexual blackmail&#8221;, she had it also before </p>
<p>marriage, but it was fair, since you could oppose the other weapons: </p>
<p>1) I leave you,<br />
2) I go with another woman better than you,<br />
3) I go to prostitutes, </p>
<p>etc.etc. </p>
<p>All these weapons, balancing the relactionship between men and women, now </p>
<p>doesn&#8217;t works anymore!, well, you still have them but you can potentially </p>
<p>backfire yourself! </p>
<p>if you leave it, go with another, go to prostitutes or else your wife could </p>
<p>use his new femminist State laws power, which did not had before, and invoke </p>
<p>the rules (female), asking for the separation and punish you with everything </p>
<p>that goes with it.</p>
<p>During the marriage your wife can do the good and the bad weather, i doesn&#8217;t </p>
<p>matter how much &#8220;land&#8221; you have in a marriage, keep in mind that she always </p>
<p>rule on the entire playing field, and this one of those situations where the </p>
<p>only way to don&#8217;t lose, is not to play. </p>
<p>Do not get married.. We can not and should not entrust our fate to the only </p>
<p>&#8220;good heart&#8221; of the woman you&#8217;re set, since for men are missing a number of </p>
<p>safeguards that make the marriage the equivalent of Russian roulette.</p>
<p>Once you become aware of this, we must consider the underlying problems, and </p>
<p>before you ask &#8220;is convenient for me to get married?&#8221; you Would be better to </p>
<p>ask yourself &#8220;why I want to get marry?&#8221;.</p>
<p>For believers, this needs may arise to make the sacrament of marriage. But </p>
<p>let me tell you.. does this sacrament make sense in a corrupted society, </p>
<p>where the marriage seems to have become an excuse to have joy in the church </p>
<p>for a day, have a good time for a week going &#8220;honeymoon in the Maldives&#8221;, </p>
<p>only to dissolve this &#8220;sacred link &#8220;when you wife decide it&#8217;s time to&#8221; break </p>
<p>free from the chains of marriage (but not from your bank account)? </p>
<p>Is this or not, for believers, a serious insult to the sacrament of marriage?</p>
<p>Just as in a church, used for black prayers and the adoration of the devil </p>
<p>should not celebrate prayers, so in a society corrupted by feminist cancer, a </p>
<p>church should not be used to clean the traditions that we have only in the </p>
<p>outer shell, but within inside is corrupted and decaying.</p>
<p>For non-believers, however, the issue is much simpler, and decide not to </p>
<p>marry takes a sense of independence from the increasingly oppressive rule </p>
<p>from this NAZIFEMMINIST State laws against men.</p>
<p>Let me ask you, Why give the State more freedom to enter right into our </p>
<p>bedrooms, giving them more tools in hand to punish us when it decide that </p>
<p>this is right? why let it be the judge of your sentimental life?</p>
<p>This power, which the NAZIFEMMINIST State laws has used and continues to use </p>
<p>to transfer money from the pockets of men in women&#8217;s pockets, and to widen </p>
<p>the freedom of all proportion to the detriment of women than men, now sees </p>
<p>its greatest expression in their Marriage.</p>
<p>The only solution is not to marry. If you want to live the experience of </p>
<p>married life, you can always experiment with cohabitation of longer or </p>
<p>shorter, always provided that they are not made more insidious and misleading </p>
<p>to equate cohabitation with marriage.</p>
<p>Something finally must be said very clearly: who buys a poison apple, knowing </p>
<p>it was poisoned, then do not expect any &#8220;solidarity&#8221; by his peers when the </p>
<p>lethal effect of the poison will start to be felt.</p>
<p>As a bottom line, let me tell you this: many old Wise Sage used to say:&#8221;Who </p>
<p>is the cause of his illness, cry himself&#8221;.</p>
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		<title>By: anon</title>
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		<dc:creator>anon</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 23 May 2011 07:06:24 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Marriage is not required to love. This fact alone is more than enough reason not to ever marry. I would never have attended college if a degree didn&#039;t increase my chances of starting a successful career.

Documents are not needed to prove your experience or skill, although it helps. Marriage is not required to prove your love, and it certainly doesn&#039;t help.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Marriage is not required to love. This fact alone is more than enough reason not to ever marry. I would never have attended college if a degree didn&#8217;t increase my chances of starting a successful career.</p>
<p>Documents are not needed to prove your experience or skill, although it helps. Marriage is not required to prove your love, and it certainly doesn&#8217;t help.</p>
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		<title>By: Rajesh</title>
		<link>http://www.levelwise.org/should-men-say-no-to-marriage.html/comment-page-2#comment-32072</link>
		<dc:creator>Rajesh</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 09 Apr 2011 08:42:59 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I can not control to post my comment, guys i have been with a cute girl for 10 yrs, it was my dream to get marry wt her, but in first few months i come to know that she had a &quot;touch allergy&quot; (lol) sex is far away not even a simple kiss or a hug, we kiss or hug sometimes onces in 6-8 months and my financial expenses were huge on her hotel n medicine etc. she had many boyfriends (just friends LJBF) but she tried her best to keep me away from other girls. beside that after first 2 yrs her nature n behavior dramatically changed and she become extremely abusive, she threatened me often that she will commit suicide. she was a bitch having a mask of very decent n virgin gal. i was attached wt her so i suffered a lot like hell for many many years. it was like a great emotional blackmail n turmoil...no sex, no love...only emotional blacking..n loosing money, wasting time ....but now everything has changed, HOW?
just like her touch allergy i developed &quot;marriage allergy&quot;, and its a 10 yrs love affair so in india its very difficult for her to get a hubby. i refused to marry her after 10yrs of love. she has lost her 70% beauty &amp; she is now a ugly fat cow, i had a small love affair wt her lil sis just to teach her how bad i feel when she wonder wt other boys. and from last six months i&#039;m enjoying 18-20 yr gals in dance bars in mumbai (bombay). i suffered a lot emotionally n financially but i&#039;m happy that i teach her a lesson. now i&#039;m happy, enjoying verity of girls in few bucks without attachment and emotional suffering. perhaps what i did wt her is not ethical but there is no way. i have suffered a huge emotional loss. i had great expectations from this relationship. unfortunately/fortunately it lead me to dance bars :)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I can not control to post my comment, guys i have been with a cute girl for 10 yrs, it was my dream to get marry wt her, but in first few months i come to know that she had a &#8220;touch allergy&#8221; (lol) sex is far away not even a simple kiss or a hug, we kiss or hug sometimes onces in 6-8 months and my financial expenses were huge on her hotel n medicine etc. she had many boyfriends (just friends LJBF) but she tried her best to keep me away from other girls. beside that after first 2 yrs her nature n behavior dramatically changed and she become extremely abusive, she threatened me often that she will commit suicide. she was a bitch having a mask of very decent n virgin gal. i was attached wt her so i suffered a lot like hell for many many years. it was like a great emotional blackmail n turmoil&#8230;no sex, no love&#8230;only emotional blacking..n loosing money, wasting time &#8230;.but now everything has changed, HOW?<br />
just like her touch allergy i developed &#8220;marriage allergy&#8221;, and its a 10 yrs love affair so in india its very difficult for her to get a hubby. i refused to marry her after 10yrs of love. she has lost her 70% beauty &amp; she is now a ugly fat cow, i had a small love affair wt her lil sis just to teach her how bad i feel when she wonder wt other boys. and from last six months i&#8217;m enjoying 18-20 yr gals in dance bars in mumbai (bombay). i suffered a lot emotionally n financially but i&#8217;m happy that i teach her a lesson. now i&#8217;m happy, enjoying verity of girls in few bucks without attachment and emotional suffering. perhaps what i did wt her is not ethical but there is no way. i have suffered a huge emotional loss. i had great expectations from this relationship. unfortunately/fortunately it lead me to dance bars <img src='http://www.levelwise.org/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
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		<title>By: wade</title>
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		<dc:creator>wade</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 05 Apr 2011 20:37:05 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I stayed in a loveless marriage for way too many years, she was emotionally abusive toward me, not to the kids.  I stayed due to the state giving all to the female, me losing the kids and rights to them.

I pistol shoot as a hobby, I was leaving, during one of her &quot;episodes&quot;, and she decided I was not allowed to leave.  In front of the kids, she went for the gun and it bounced out of the holster.  

Thank got for the safety.  At this point I walked her out of the house, stating she was a danger to the children, told her I was filing for divorce, taking the kids and the house.  if she did not agree, I would have the kids testify in open court what they saw.

I filed divorce, closed all joint accounts, and when she said she was getting a lawyer, i asked her how she was paying.  handed her a check for part of the joint account with a copy of the receipt.  told her she is not hiring a lawyer with my money.

went to court, she did not want the kids to testify, i got custody.  also the house was in a VA loan, they would not let her assume the mortgage she had to qualify, which she did not on her own income, so i got the house.

here is the way it needs to go. never ever get married.  if you are and in a bad situation, rule number one,,,treat them like they are like a *unt.  be mean.  men usually walk out and say keep the house for the kids.  i say, no way.  walk her out, close the accounts, keep receipts, cut off all her access to the money.

good luck, i did not win, i just came out not losing.  but never never again.

peace</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I stayed in a loveless marriage for way too many years, she was emotionally abusive toward me, not to the kids.  I stayed due to the state giving all to the female, me losing the kids and rights to them.</p>
<p>I pistol shoot as a hobby, I was leaving, during one of her &#8220;episodes&#8221;, and she decided I was not allowed to leave.  In front of the kids, she went for the gun and it bounced out of the holster.  </p>
<p>Thank got for the safety.  At this point I walked her out of the house, stating she was a danger to the children, told her I was filing for divorce, taking the kids and the house.  if she did not agree, I would have the kids testify in open court what they saw.</p>
<p>I filed divorce, closed all joint accounts, and when she said she was getting a lawyer, i asked her how she was paying.  handed her a check for part of the joint account with a copy of the receipt.  told her she is not hiring a lawyer with my money.</p>
<p>went to court, she did not want the kids to testify, i got custody.  also the house was in a VA loan, they would not let her assume the mortgage she had to qualify, which she did not on her own income, so i got the house.</p>
<p>here is the way it needs to go. never ever get married.  if you are and in a bad situation, rule number one,,,treat them like they are like a *unt.  be mean.  men usually walk out and say keep the house for the kids.  i say, no way.  walk her out, close the accounts, keep receipts, cut off all her access to the money.</p>
<p>good luck, i did not win, i just came out not losing.  but never never again.</p>
<p>peace</p>
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		<title>By: Obelisk</title>
		<link>http://www.levelwise.org/should-men-say-no-to-marriage.html/comment-page-1#comment-29969</link>
		<dc:creator>Obelisk</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 14 Feb 2011 01:26:52 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>First of all I don&#039;t want a slave, a maid or a whore. 

People told me that women wanted equality. I used to believe that but years of simple observation have changed my beliefs. Marriage is an institution designed to transfer wealth from men to women and their children. Chastiy was enforced in women so that the man had reason to believe that the children were his. But what the hell is a father now? A father&#039;s place in a family is tenuous, a single phone call and he is in prison. There is no equality in family court. A husband is just a money making machine. Marriage carries much risk and little reward for men. A family is now a woman, her children and the government. The man only pays for it.

I reject marriage. I don&#039;t owe women anything. I refect society and it&#039;s morals. I reject the responsibilites that people say I have because I&#039;m a man. I will not provide for or protect a woman. I don&#039;t exist anymore in society. I&#039;ll walk past a woman that is being raped, I&#039;ll keep walking if I see a child in danger. I will sacrifice nothing for society. I will not suffer the indignity of having the fruits of my labour stolen from me. I will not be assaulted with impunity. I will not die or kill for my country. I don&#039;t exist unless it&#039;s in my best interest.

Why? Because I don&#039;t have a place in society. It&#039;s been demonstrated to me that husbands, fathers and men in general are disposable. Ok then, I&#039;ll have nothing to do with it.

Don&#039;t get married. Don&#039;t co-habitate either it&#039;s nearly the same thing. Look up your local laws.

Good bye.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>First of all I don&#8217;t want a slave, a maid or a whore. </p>
<p>People told me that women wanted equality. I used to believe that but years of simple observation have changed my beliefs. Marriage is an institution designed to transfer wealth from men to women and their children. Chastiy was enforced in women so that the man had reason to believe that the children were his. But what the hell is a father now? A father&#8217;s place in a family is tenuous, a single phone call and he is in prison. There is no equality in family court. A husband is just a money making machine. Marriage carries much risk and little reward for men. A family is now a woman, her children and the government. The man only pays for it.</p>
<p>I reject marriage. I don&#8217;t owe women anything. I refect society and it&#8217;s morals. I reject the responsibilites that people say I have because I&#8217;m a man. I will not provide for or protect a woman. I don&#8217;t exist anymore in society. I&#8217;ll walk past a woman that is being raped, I&#8217;ll keep walking if I see a child in danger. I will sacrifice nothing for society. I will not suffer the indignity of having the fruits of my labour stolen from me. I will not be assaulted with impunity. I will not die or kill for my country. I don&#8217;t exist unless it&#8217;s in my best interest.</p>
<p>Why? Because I don&#8217;t have a place in society. It&#8217;s been demonstrated to me that husbands, fathers and men in general are disposable. Ok then, I&#8217;ll have nothing to do with it.</p>
<p>Don&#8217;t get married. Don&#8217;t co-habitate either it&#8217;s nearly the same thing. Look up your local laws.</p>
<p>Good bye.</p>
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		<title>By: Brandon</title>
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		<dc:creator>Brandon</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 01 Feb 2011 02:12:37 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I&#039;m only 15, but seeing the additudes of girls in my High School, I only have two options, no marriage and stay in the US or find a good woman from a traditional family in Latin America, Asia, or Eastern Europe.</description>
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		<title>By: The Poet</title>
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		<dc:creator>The Poet</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 30 Jan 2011 02:58:20 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>The concept that men are better than women at mathematics or science is a myth. This is total rubbish from the fifties and has been proven time after time in real scientific experiments and with exam results: some show women are better than men, though the evidence points more to girls tending to work harder at school than boys now rather than a gender specific trait.

I&#039;m a man, who believed the myth that men are better than women at maths until I looked into it. I studied a degree in science and pretty good at maths (studied at University level).

BTW keep the language and insults to a minimum, you don&#039;t know who is reading this. I cleaned up your comments a bit, but won&#039;t do it again (will delete them next time).

Site owner.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>The concept that men are better than women at mathematics or science is a myth. This is total rubbish from the fifties and has been proven time after time in real scientific experiments and with exam results: some show women are better than men, though the evidence points more to girls tending to work harder at school than boys now rather than a gender specific trait.</p>
<p>I&#8217;m a man, who believed the myth that men are better than women at maths until I looked into it. I studied a degree in science and pretty good at maths (studied at University level).</p>
<p>BTW keep the language and insults to a minimum, you don&#8217;t know who is reading this. I cleaned up your comments a bit, but won&#8217;t do it again (will delete them next time).</p>
<p>Site owner.</p>
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