Comment posted to Should Men Say No To Marriage? by Fletcher.
I have a very comfortable income and I make much more money than most other males my age. The idea of jeopardizing that for “love” is not an appealing one. I have many other friends who are doctors, lawyers, etc. and every single one of them has gone through a bitter divorce. So what are the chances that marriage is a wise decision when I have yet to see one person from my generation have a successful marriage?
I can’t stand feminists. I encounter them fairly frequently at my job and I have to say that I avoid women because of it. If I have to meet with a female subordinate, I have either another woman stay in the office or I videotape and tape record the interaction. Growing up in America has left me with a healthy distrust of women, and I could lose my job if a woman brought up any kind of claim of sexual harassment against me. Which is why I rarely speak with female co-workers, and when I do, I will ask them to remain professional if they flirt with me at all. The women at my work lately have started rumors that the reason that I’m not interested in any of them is because I am homosexual, because the only way that I could ever resist their wiles is by being gay! It’s really quite pathetic.
When I go out on a date with a woman, she wants to know how much money I make/what my career is. I usually tell women I’m a teacher, and you should see their faces turn in disgust when they imagine me in a non-lucrative career. From that moment on they come across as extremely closed off. Guess I can’t afford her on my teacher’s salary.
Will I ever get married? Doubtful. But if I met a great girl who wasn’t poisoned by feminism I might consider it. I have everything I need, great friends, family and co-workers, I’m pretty content not bothering with women. When I do date it doesn’t last long because I’m not one for being constantly belittled/nagged at. I still don’t understand why women think that making the relationship one of constant fighting, bickering, and misery is going to lead to marriage. I can barely take 3 months of that, how could I ever take 10+ years of it?
