Comment posted to Should Men Say No To Marriage? by Trevor Emdon.
The problem stems from “equality” having been misconstrued in the West to mean women should try to be men. This was in some strange way related to a deep seated idea that they had, until the mid 20th century been treated badly. (Some of them had been, but the response was still odd!)
Equality should surely mean that women have as much liberty and license to express their femininity as men do their masculinity! When and where that occurs you get balance, harmony and teamwork as you will see anywhere in nature.
As a heterosexual male, I love women who love being women. And I also love women who love what being a woman does to a heterosexual male. I’m not talking dirty, I’m talking natural, organic attraction.
That is why, after two failed marriages to Western women, I am now very happily married to, and in love with, and much loved by, a beautiful Asian woman. She loves being a woman and a wife, and she makes it an absolute delight to be her husband.
Under those conditions, I readily said “yes” to marriage, and I would commend the same formula to my male Western counterparts!
